So a couple of weeks ago, I did an experiment–I called guys on not reading my profile.
The first result (and a reminder of what my profile says) is here.
Guy Two uses 11 words to describe himself on his profile. I couldn’t read his answers to questions, but OKC tells me he’s 40% incompatible with me, based on what I care about.
Him: Hi.. how s it going You are beautiful, I hope we can be friends
Me: I’m looking for a partner, not just a friend. But thank you for the compliment; it was nice to wake up to! 🙂 Have a great day!
Him: Morning .. everything starts with friendship
I would like to take you out
Me: Things do start with friendship, but your profile says friendship is what you’re looking for–not long-term dating. It also says you want kids. I’m not having any more of those.
Him: I am still learning how to use this dating site. Yes I want relationship with my compatible person. Kids depend on my partner
Me: Did you “lock” almost all of your questions? I can only see your answers to two of them.
Wasn’t comfortable to put my info in my profile
Me: I’m confused then–the site says you’ve answered forty questions, but I can only see your answers to two. It is telling me that, based on your answers, we’re not a good match.
Him: You can ask any question you want
Me: If you read my profile all the way through, you’ll know I hate it when guys say that. 🙂
Him: My bad
Me: I’m on OKC instead of other sites so I don’t have to play 20 questions to figure out basic compatibility. Can you see all of my answers?
Him: I didn’t read yet
And then maybe he did–cause that was the (always inevitable) end.