If I’ve already told you I’m not interested, why would you message me a week or a month later asking for a hookup?
Guy 1: Hello I’m jesse you have amazing eyes!
Me: Hi, Jesse. Thanks for the compliment. Unfortunately, I don’t want to date someone as far away as Stockton. I hope you have a wonderful day!
Guy 1: Ty sexy
11 days later:
Guy 1: Hello I would love to give you a Australian kiss!
[That’s a random offer to go down on me.]
Me: I’m not interested in hooking up with you.
In May, I had a frustrating conversation with Guy 2. His profile was pretty blank, he hadn’t answered many questions, etc. When I told him I wasn’t interested b/c of that, he wrote more and answered more questions, which was helpful in that it allowed me to see that we weren’t at all compatible. Took a while to shake him, though–he just kept hounding me. Then I finally thought he’d gone away.
A month later:
Him: Hi how you doing
Me: I’m still not interested in pursuing a relationship.
Him: I know I just asked how u doing
Me: I’m busy–I’m overseas at a conference. I’m not sure why you’re messaging me.
Him: Oh nice .. have fun
A little later:
Him: I was looking for hookups and I u r pics turn me on
Me: How strange. On May 12th, you wrote this to me: “I am also not looking for casual sex..”
So I guess you were lying.
Him: I’m not laying on that time .but I haven’t had sex for last 8 months and I was so much turn on last night
And your profile I always like and you pics turn me on so much
Me: I’m not interested in you.
Him: I know I was just trying my luck if you are ready for hookup with me but that’s fine I can watch porn and do masturbate
Me: I will never want to hook up with you.
Enjoy your porn.
And now he’s blocked.
